Signs of Cheating

Have you ever wondered if your lover is cheating?В  Maybe you got that feeling in the pit of your stomach when he comes home late or you see him talking to a girl from work at a party.В  Whatever it is, sometimes there are signs that could point to a cheating lover that shouldn’t be missed.

But before we go getting all paranoid, not every flirtation or late night means that your lover is cheating.В  If you have a trusting relationship and confidence I yourself, a few missteps here or there doesn’t mean a thing.В  But when a pattern develops that causes you to feel that something is just not right, then you must take action.В  Before accusing your man (or woman gosh its not always the man), do your homework.В  A false accusation could label you as insecure and crazy and set the tone for the rest of your relationship, maybe even them to cheat.В  You know the saying, if you believe I did it, then maybe I should.

When someone is cheating a pattern develops that is clear in hindsight but not always visible when you think everything is going along smoothly.В  Below are some signs that alone may mean nothing, but if combined with 2 or more, can spell trouble

The Makeover

Your partner is suddenly more concerned about the way they look.В  New clothes, a new hairstyle, more make up, different facial hair, new perfume or cologne or a guy getting his ears pierced can raise a red flag.

A New Fitness Regime

Your partner is suddenly more into fitness.В  He or she joins a gym or if already a member goes more frequently and spends a lot more time there.

Diet

Your partner is now watching closely what they eat, counting calories and weighing themselves constantly.В  They are always in the mirror looking to see if they lost weight and asking if they look thinner.

Texting

The texting volume has gone way up and at odd hours.В  You can’t seem to get his attention away from his PDA and when he is reading a smile creeps on his face.В  When you ask him what’s up he says nothing and won’t really say who he is texting.

Boys’ Night Out

There is an increase of boys’ night out.В  Your partner is spending more nights out with his friends and comes home later and later.

Working Late

Suddenly you partner has to work late a lot more and by late, he is very late often arriving home after 10pm or even midnight.

Cell Phone Activity

There is an increase in incoming calls that require him to step away saying в